Relationships

First of all I would like to ask you guys, if you are close to your family members? For me I think I'm very close to my sis and quite close to my dad but not my mum. I don't know why, sometimes she is good but most of the time I just can't tolerate her. I always don't feel her care or concern for me.

I'm sick the last few days and I cant go to work. After I came back from the clinic, she kept calling my sis to check if I'm well. The reason why she kept calling is not because she really care about my illness but to hope that I can able to work the next day.

The next day I'm still not well but I call to find out if I still need to work as its a 3 days work. The person said I don't have to go for these 3 days, of course I'm happy but not my mum. After I let her know about it, she has never ask much about my illness anymore. See how truthful of her!

About 2 days ago, she asked me what kind of job I want to find and I'm really sick of people asking me this question. So I tell her not to ask me, I don't wish to answer that. She immediately changed her tone and started to nag. She said: "fine, I don't want to care about you anymore, I'll let you do whatever things you like, blah blah... I cant spoon feed you for the rest of your life" Excuse me! I didn't expect you to do that and I hate that!! She just don't understand me. I really get irriated by it. Each and everytime she has to keep asking me about this. I just kept quiet, as I know its useless to say anything.

Yesterday, when the phone ring I knew its her and I told my sis that I hate to hear the phone. Indeed, she called and asked me if I have asked when I will recieve my paid. I told her that it won't be that fast and she told that me I can't keep waiting for this part time job. I told her that I didn't want to wait for this.At the same time I can't tell her how much I hate to be a promoter. If possible, I never want to do it . So I tell her I can find other jobs, why should I do this kind of part time job. She said that but I didn't find any, and I get furious and said I just recovered from my sickness and shes speechless. Shes don't even remember I'm SICK! How sick of it.

What's more? She asks me to do house work all the time. It's not that I don't want to do but when I'm sick. She don't asks my sis to do it. She waits for me to recover and asks me to do. She has never ask my sis to do any house work! When is the last time she asks her to sweep floor? Just because I'm the one with no job?! My sis has a part time job so she don't have to?! Just hate it. Forget it! Everytime when I think about it just makes me mad. I don't wish to go on anymore. Sound like a granny telling her old grandma story.

Lastly, thanks to all people that have comment!

God bless!